AAV MISSION

"Advocates Against Violence" was created to bring awareness to the life changes that occur from living in violent environments. We consider violent environments to include domestic violence (DV), intimate partner violence (IPV), child abuse, neglect, and sexual molestation (CANSM), random violence and those whom are affected by natural disasters.

Our Mission

We hope to bring awareness to victims of violence in all its forms and report information that affects those whom are affected by natural disasters. We hope to provide resources and spread awareness through research that will provide links to resources that will help victims of violence (family violence, domestic violence, child abuse, child neglect, child endangerment, child molestation, and those suffering from natural disasters (tornadoes, earthquakes, hurricanes, volcano eruptions, etc.). Moroever, we hope to include resources for victims of violence in all forms including victims of random violence (muggings, armed robbery, kidnapping, school violence, etc.).


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Saturday, April 30, 2011

Video - Child Abuse - Couple in Hayes Virginia

 

Child Remains Found - Couple Under Suspicion of Child Abuse

Child Remains Found - Couple Under Suspicion of Child Abuse

In Hayes, Virginia, police may have located a body thought to be a young child. Beneath a shed near the residence of a couple recently under suspicion of child abuse in Gloucester County, police found remains of a small child. Shannon and Brian Gore are under arrest for criminal child abuse allegations after police, after obtaining a search warrant, began a search beneath a shed belonging to the couple.

Around 8:30, a body found that is a young child; remains of the body are in transit to Richmond, Virginia medical examiner’s office. The police department currently has no further charges against the Gore couple. According to the Sherriff department, suspicion occurred from checking on a possible burglary the previous evening.

Inside the Gore residence, officers located the daughter of the couple (age 6), naked and covered in her own excrement trapped in her cradle. Moreover, the child, transported to the local hospital for treatment from inexorable starvation. Another child of the Gore couple (healthy) is in the care of child services.


Mary Browning - 4/30/2011

Reference:  
Press. (2011, April 30). BREAKING NEWS: Deputies find body of young child buried near home of couple accused of child abuse - dailypress.com. Hampton Roads news, information, weather, hurricane coverage, sports, entertainment, restaurants, real estate, jobs, business, classifieds - dailypress.com. Retrieved April 30, 2011, from http://www.dailypress.com/news/wtkr-gl-couple-abuse,0,2734142.story

Friday, April 29, 2011

Calhoun County Alabama Tornado



Tornado that ripped through my county (Calhoun County Alabama) on 4/27/2011...many people were injured and are without anything left.

*Mary Browning 4/29/2011 -

Cleburne News - Local News, Business, Sports, Events, Blogs, Videos, Podcasts

Cleburne News - Local News, Business, Sports, Events, Blogs, Videos, Podcasts

EMS in Cleburne County may get harder to handle
by Jason Bacaj
Consolidated News Service

HEFLIN — It’s funny, the things you remember. It was about 20 years ago that the red-haired woman was lying just so on the Interstate 20 pavement. She was obviously dead. But the 10-month-old baby under her arm was still alive, Heflin Mayor Anna Berry remembers. Berry was driving east in a red Volvo when she pulled up to the scene that morning. A man with an Australian accent had told her not to walk up to the accident. The red-haired woman’s car was sideways in the left lane.

Apparently it had struck an 18-wheeler parked on the roadside. It killed the woman and a man, presumably her husband, Berry said, recalling the scene from her office in downtown Heflin.

She can still see the baby’s little eyes and the children crying on the bank. And she remembers wearing a red dress and wondering where the paramedics were. “There was nobody there but truck drivers,” Berry said. Cleburne County’s hospital had recently closed and there was no ambulance service in the county at the time. The kids were airlifted out to Birmingham, Berry said. She and several other county residents, including coroner Rudy Rooks and paramedic Keith Roberts, formed a nonprofit ambulance service soon after that accident.

Today that ambulance service’s level of operations is endangered. Pay is poor, yet payroll and insurance costs still eat into the 4-mill tax that supports the service. Bankruptcy is a possibility down the road for the hospital board that oversees the EMS, if no changes are implemented.

Yet 20 years ago, at the time of the highway tragedy, the community came together and donated land, time and materials to the project. Cleburne County soon had a viable emergency medical service.

After a while it got too big for the volunteers to run and was given to the county hospital board. “It’s the ultimate volunteer success story,”

Berry said. Success is fleeting After a year of losing money, the Cleburne County Hospital Board is strapped for cash and is looking at the possibility of cutting services — leaving the county’s 15,000 residents with a level of emergency medical service that it hasn’t seen since the time of that accident.

The hospital board receives a 4 mill tax — about $440,000, said Shannon Roberts, board chairman — and operates the county nursing home in addition to the EMS. The 82-bed nursing home is usually self-sufficient, whereas the EMS typically operates at a monthly loss.

The number of nursing home patients fell last year and the board had to put money into it to keep the facility running. Having to support both operations rather than just one stretched the hospital board’s finances.

Cuts and adjustments were made to both, with the nursing home changing therapy providers and EMS slashing its budget by 14 percent.Attempts earlier this week to reach nursing home director Eura Harrell were unsuccessful.The cuts and changes weren’t enough, however. If the hospital board continues operations as they are now, it will go bankrupt in two to three years, Roberts said.

Patients have returned to the nursing home and it showed a profit the last two months, Roberts said. He feels it has turned the corner and is no longer in trouble.

EMS, however, has long-term problems, Roberts said. Last year’s tight finances showed the hospital board that the EMS’s rising payroll and health insurance are unsustainable and must be cut. “Just gradually over time, the EMS has consumed more and more of the tax,” Roberts said.

“They get closer and closer to (using all of) that 4 mill tax … and actually the 4 mill tax will decrease next year about 10 percent because of lowering property values.”

Tenuous position(s)

Payroll has risen over the past three years because the Cleburne County EMS doesn’t pay a competitive wage, said Keith Roberts, now the EMS director.

He’s unrelated to Shannon Roberts, board chairman. It pays a little more than $10 an hour and doesn’t provide benefits. As a result, almost all of the 14 EMS employees are part-time and are working there as a second job, Keith Roberts said.

“My people are so underpaid … and they have the hardest job,” Keith said, noting they cover 575 rural miles with the closest hospital 22 miles away. “It takes a unique paramedic to do well out here.”

There are eight paramedics on staff, one of whom had a motorcycle accident in November and might not return to work, Keith said. Of the other seven — which includes Keith — only three count Cleburne County EMS as their primary employer.

One is in nursing school and will leave upon graduation.

Another is in law enforcement and can only work there because of the flexibility of his current assignment.

The longest tenured paramedic — 10 years, twice the average career length, Keith said — is primarily a firefighter in Calhoun County. Another is primarily a paramedic in Oxford.

Two declined to be identified in this story. But both could envision a scenario in which they leave the EMS in the near future.

Losing two paramedics would force the Cleburne County EMS to cut services.

There’s little hope the county could fill the position, Keith said. No paramedics have applied to the county in three years. “I’m hanging on by a little thread,” Keith said. Cutting services means Keith would run at least one basic life support ambulance. Basic life support ambulances do not have paramedics, only emergency medical technicians. EMTs are only able to stop bleeding and perform CPR.

Keith estimated about 62 of the roughly 250 calls the EMS receives each month require a paramedic.

Without a paramedic on those calls, about a third of those would result in the patient dying, Keith and a paramedic estimated.

That would equal about 20 deaths a month.

Troubled future

Turning a profit — or operating close to the margin — seems unrealistic for a rural ambulance service, said Carl Smith, treasurer of the Cleburne County Association of Volunteer Fire Departments.

Few, if any, EMS operations turn a monthly profit, he said. Smith feels the whole 4 mill tax should go to the EMS, but believes the hospital board should keep the nursing home while it’s profitable.

He can’t imagine an emergency service — fire, police or medical — running without government subsidy.

A 2 mill tax and 2 cent fireworks sales tax gets divvied up between 12 fire departments in the county, Smith said. The Ranburne Volunteer Fire

Department wouldn’t run without it, he said.

The Heflin Volunteer Fire Department wouldn’t be able to run as it does now without that tax benefit and additional subsidies either, said Terri Daulton, Heflin city clerk.

Taxes and government should work to keep people safe and healthy, said Daulton. The tax pays for equipment and training while the city pays utilities and salary, she said.

The objective is keeping the residents safe and healthy, Daulton said.

“We … make sure they have what they need,” she said. “Profit is not something we talk about.” The county’s need for an ambulance service is only increasing. In three years, new state laws will only allow volunteer firefighters who take 40 hours of class and a certain amount of training to perform medical treatment, Smith said.

At that point, the EMS is going to be the only service that can respond to a medical call, he said.

“It just scares the poo out of me where we may be headed,” Smith said. “I don’t think the people understand just how critical that service is until they need it.”

Star staff writer Jason Bacaj: 256-235-3546

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Close-up video of Tuscaloosa Alabama Tornado 4-27-2011 -- One of the largest I've every seen in this area. This video was taken at close range and is amazing footage.


dealnews Will Match Up to $250,000 for Tornado Relief ($500k total)

dealnews Will Match Up to $250,000 for Tornado Relief ($500k total)

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dealnews Will Match Up to $250,000 for Tornado Relief ($500k total)
As you probably know, a devastating and deadly sweep of powerful storms and tornadoes ripped through Southern U.S. states yesterday. Over 200 are dead, reports CNN, with over 130 dead in Alabama. Hundreds of thousands are affected.

What you may not know is that the dealnews company headquarters is in Huntsville, AL, one of the areas hit by tornados. At the time I write this, we've not yet heard from all of our team in the area. More than one million people are without power, including all of our Huntsville team. Our hearts and prayers go out to our fellow employees, our families, friends, co-workers, and loved ones affected by the storms and tornadoes. We hope and pray for their safety and well-being.

While we're doing everything we can for our team, the American Red Cross is working to serve the hundreds of thousands of other people who are affected. That's why I'm asking you to donate to the Red Cross' Disaster Relief Fund. I know the good folks at the Madison/Marshall County Chapter of the Red Cross well, and I know they're incredibly busy right now. They're committed to helping people when their need is greatest. I'm personally imploring you to help them and their brothers and sisters at Red Cross chapters throughout the Southeast do their vital work.

For every dollar you donate to American Red Cross Disaster Relief, dealnews will match 100 percent, up to $250,000. Please help us spread the word by sharing this message via email, Facebook, Twitter, or whatever way you see fit. Our goal is to raise a total of $500,000: $250,000 from our wonderful readers and $250,000 from us.

Here’s how it works:

  1. Make a donation online at American Red Cross.
  2. Keep your confirmation email and forward it to tornadorelief@dealnews.com. (As always, dealnews respects and protects your privacy.)
  3. We’ll match 100 percent of your donation until we hit our $250,000 limit.
  4. Help us spread the news via Facebook, Twitter, and email.
Please note that we’re only matching donations from today, April 28, 2011, until May 12, 2011, to the American Red Cross. If you’ve made a previous donation to ARC, or prefer to donate to a different organization, I applaud you. But our matching donation is an attempt to encourage those who haven’t made a donation yet, or to encourage those who've already given to "double their money" if they give more.

We've done disaster relief fundraisers from time to time, but this is the first time that we've done one for a disaster that hit our own backyard. If we've ever helped you save money, I'm asking a favor from you: please give a little bit of it back. On behalf of everyone here at dealnews, I sincerely thank you for your contribution.

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Tornado Rips Through Alabama 4-27-2011 - Please Help!

"It looks like a war zone...
our livelihood is gone...
you keep thinking 'how can I get through it?'"
- Tornado Survivor, 2011 Spring Storms


With winds up to 80 miles per hour, the recent band of tornadoes on Friday, April 15 left a trail of destruction across the state of Alabama, after it pummeled Oklahoma, Arkansas and Mississippi. After tornadoes touched down in at least 6 different counties, Alabama Governor Robert Bentley has declared a state of emergency. At least seven people in Alabama have died. As local communities emerge to assess the damage, the Red Cross was on the scene minutes after the disaster to provide relief and assistance.

Preliminary damage assessments indicate that in the state of Alabama alone, 128 homes have been destroyed, 70 homes have sustained major damage and over 50 homes have minor damage. No town has been hit harder than Geiger, Alabama, about an hour south of Tuscaloosa. The entire town population has been affected with 100 homes sustaining damage and 61 homes being completely destroyed.

Tornadoes come and go with little warning and families can lose their home in an instant. As these communities band together to rebuild and return to normalcy, individuals and families are turning to the American Red Cross for the shelter, food, emotional support and emergency assistance. Please help us continue to deliver these critical services, and to be ready for the next tornado.

With 12,000 homes still without power and hundreds of homes damaged or destroyed, the Red Cross is providing shelter as residents rebuild their homes, none of which could be possible without the support of individuals, community organizations, corporations and foundations. Our disaster relief programs ensure that lifesaving services are available immediately to all people affected by disaster, as well as to prepare communities for disasters before they strike.

The Red Cross is prepared to respond to disasters like these at a moment’s notice, 24 hours a day and 7 days a week. The Red Cross is already providing shelters in the affected areas; serving hot meals and snacks, and distributing comfort kits and other items. To support people after the tornadoes, the Red Cross will be distributing cleanup kits containing gloves, a mop, bleach and a dust mask. Disaster workers in emergency response vehicles are circulating throughout the region, delivering hot meals and cleanup kits as people begin to recover from the disaster. Those who lost contact with their loved ones due to power and phone outages can leave message of their well-being for the Safe and Well Red Cross website at any Red Cross shelter.

Every year the Red Cross spends an average of $450 million on our Disaster Services program. Not only does it cover our direct services to our clients, it also includes costs to maintain those things that help us provide assistance to people in need. We have warehouses, disaster response vehicles, trained volunteers, computer systems and paid staff ready to respond year round. It is through the ongoing support of the public that we can continue to maintain these resources 24-7 and ready to respond when disaster strikes.

The Red Cross is doing everything we can to ensure that when families and individuals are affected by disaster, we are there. We cannot do it alone. Help us continue this life saving work today and make a donation today to American Red Cross Disaster Relief. Your donation is critical to providing a safe, warm and dry place to stay, food, emotional support and many other kinds of assistance- whenever and wherever disaster strikes.

How You Can Help

You can help people affected by disasters like the Alabama tornadoes, as well as countless crises at home and around the world, by making a donation to support American Red Cross Disaster Relief. Your gift enables the Red Cross to prepare for and provide shelter, food, emotional support and other assistance in response to disasters. Visit www.redcross.org or call 1-800-RED-CROSS. Contributions may also be sent to your local American Red Cross chapter or to the American Red Cross, P. O. Box 37243, Washington, DC 20013.

Mid Alabama Region - Services - Emergency Services - 2011 Alabama Tornado Response

Mid Alabama Region - Services - Emergency Services - 2011 Alabama Tornado Response

Tornadoes ripped across Alabama on April 27, 2011 destroying the lives of many Alabama residents. Take action by donating to the Alabama Tornado Relief Fund via the American Red Cross. You can also help by donating via Facebook Causes.

Your help and support will be tremendously appreciated.

Thank you,
Mary Browning

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Recognizing the Signs of Child Abuse

Recognizing the signs of child abuse...


Sexual abuse involves forcing, tricking, threatening or pressuring a child into sexual awareness or activity. Sexual abuse can be physical, verbal or emotional, and occurs when an older or more knowledgeable child or adult uses a child for sexual pleasure. The abuse often begins gradually and increases over time. It can include sexual touching and fondling or exposing children to adult sexual activity including pornographic movies and photographs. 
Incest is defined as sexual relations of any kind perpetrated by a biologically or non-biologically related person functioning in the role of a family member. Other trusted adults could also sexually abuse children and teenagers. These include parents, uncles, aunts, siblings, step-parents, grandparents, coaches, baby sitters, clergy and teachers.
The use of physical force, known as sexual assault, is rarely necessary to engage a child in sexual activity because children are trusting and dependent. Children are taught not to question authority and they believe that adults are always right. Perpetrators of child sexual abuse know this, and take advantage of these vulnerabilities in children. Sexual abuse is an abuse of power over a child and a violation of a child's right to normal, healthy, trusting relationships.
Incest and sexual abuse are at epidemic proportions. Statistics from RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network), state 15 percent of sexual assault and rape cases occur in children under the age of 12, with 93 percent of juvenile sexual assault perpetuated by someone they know. Of those assaults, 34.2 percent of attackers were family members, 58.7 percent were acquaintances and only 7 percent were complete strangers.

Symptoms

Because most children cannot or do not tell about being sexually abused, it is up to concerned adults or friends to recognize signs of abuse. Physical evidence of abuse is rare. Therefore, we must look for behavioral signs.
The following are general behavior changes that may occur in children and teens who have been sexually abused:
  • Depression
  • Eating Disorders
  • Sleep disturbances
  • School problems
  • Withdrawal from family, friends, or usual activities
  • Excessive bathing or poor hygiene
  • Anxiety
  • Running away
  • Low self-esteem
  • Self-destructive behavior
  • Hostility or aggression
  • Drug or alcohol problems
  • Sexual activity or pregnancy at an early age; promiscuity
  • Suicide attempts

Additional Symptoms

Children and teens who have been sexually abused frequently have more specific symptoms:
  • Copying adult sexual behavior
  • Sexual play with other children, themselves, toys or pets
  • Displaying sexual knowledge, through language or behavior, beyond what is normal for their age
  • Unexplained pain, swelling, bleeding or irritation of the mouth, genital or anal area
  • Urinary infections 
  • Sexually transmitted diseases
  • Hints, indirect comments or statements about the abuse 

Treatment

Often children and teens do not tell anyone about sexual abuse because they:
  • Are too young to put what has happened into words
  • Were threatened or bribed by the abuser to keep the abuse a secret
  • Feel confused by the attention and feelings that accompany the abuse
  • Fear that no one will believe them
  • Blame themselves or believe the abuse is punishment for being "bad"
  • Feel too ashamed or embarrassed to tell
  • Worry about getting into trouble or getting a loved one into trouble
A small percentage of kids who are victims of abuse or incest find the courage to tell someone. These disclosures can be as painful as the incest itself; the child believing he or she is telling on someone he or she loves and reliving the horrible experience. They don't want to cause problems, they just want it to stop. No one really knows what makes one child disclose and another not. We do know that it is incredibly important for a disclosure to be heard respectfully and to be believed.
Often when a child discloses incest, he doesn't have words to answer all the questions adults ask. They simply don't understand what is happening. Adults who are already uncomfortable, get frustrated and the whole thing gets dismissed. Oftentimes adults react with denial, and decide that the child was "making it up" or "fantasizing." Just remember... if a child is not believed, it is most likely that he or she won't ever tell again.
Children and teens who have been sexually abused feel many different and overwhelming emotions, like fear, anger, sadness, guilt and confusion.
Every child is vulnerable to sexual abuse. One out of four females is sexually abused by the time she reaches age 18. That could include you, a friend or a sibling. Today's teenagers and children must face the possibility that someone may hurt or take advantage of them. Almost all of these children will be abused by someone they know and trust: a relative, a family friend, or a caretaker.
It happens - and not just to other people. Children of every race, religion and economic status are abused. What makes this problem even worse is that the effects of abuse and incest don't stop when the abuse stops. They stay with the child as he or she grows through adolescence and into adulthood. Self-hatred, alcoholism, drug addiction, depression, eating disorders, the inability to trust and suicide are common results of incest and sexual abuse.


For more information for parents about child sexual abuse, please visit this link to access a brochure in English, Spanish, French or Irish from Child AbuseWatch.net.
Established in 2008, Child AbuseWatch is a child abuse prevent network (www.abusewatch.net). Child AbuseWatch is operated by One Child International Inc., a benefactor-funded Florida corporation, currently undergoing conversion to IRS 501(c)(3) classification.
One Child International Inc and Child AbuseWatch are not affiliated with any religious, political or cultural organization or institution; their only purpose is the protection of children from abuse (Abuse Campaign, 2010).

References:

Abuse Campaign. (2010). http://stopabusecampaign.com - The Signs of Child Abuse. http://stopabusecampaign.com - Home Page. Retrieved April 27, 2011, from http://stopabusecampaign.com/signs-of-abuse/

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